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I guess what I am trying to say is that almost 34 years ago I landed in Israel on a very cold and rainy day and wish I met people during my journey that would steer me in the right direction so I would not be dealing with things today that could have been done better back then. I wish there was someone that would have showed me the ropes more and would have given me advice as to not to have these problems I have been dealing with now and could have saved me from that. I hope this clears up what I was trying to say in the title. Thank you.
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Now I understand perfectly. It definitely helps if you had some sort of help that could have made life much more easier now that you think of it. Nonetheless, you experience is a story for another person to learn. So do your part by sharing and it can help another out there.
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I came back in to fix what I was trying to say, but, glad you could understand what I was saying and thank you for that. I am still going to fix it.
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I fixed it and hopefully it sounds better than what I said in the beginning. Does this make more sense to you than what I originally wrote?
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Yes it definitely makes sense and I understand.
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Thank you so very much for understanding what I was trying to say.
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No one knows what future holds as situations unfold as one moves on and the kind of help you thought you could ask for would not be available as well as they too would not know the conditions you would have to face. 

As they say what can't  be cured has to be endured. 
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My situation could have been avoided and could have been taken care of if people would have helped me in the beginning and not left me to hang and then now I have to fix it and it costs me a lot of money.
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When we moved to this village I befriended the neighbors so I could get information about the town and the culture.
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That I can understand because you needed to know information so knew what to do here.
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I thought my father's siblings can help us out after his death. It turned out that they are evil relatives. We have close acquainted friends that can give assistance to us.
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That is more like it Shavkat. The thing is there are those that knew things and could have helped me but instead steered me in wrong directions and now I am paying the price.
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Yes, I am getting you! This happens often with the people, when they feel that the things could have been much better if the proper guidance was given to them initially when they required it! Since now nothing can be done , it is better to forget about it and concentrate on the present situation!
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You understood to the end. Yes, I had to fix and pay for what others could have helped me avoid but now I am on my own and people are ignoring to help me and want to take credit for what I did and not them.
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These things they happen in lives of most of the people who are new to some place! We need to learn the lessons with the time!
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Yes, I agree that we should have at least a person to guide us during the hardest part.
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You are so right in that. I do not understand why people do not want to care and help someone and steer them in the right direction instead of them having to deal with it down the line themselves.
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I always wanted to have a good set of friends and also happy supportive family but life always has different plans and the thing is that we develop lot differently as we meet new people. 
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Sorry that is not it. What could have been avoided and taken care of either before I came to live here and have been pointed in the right direction so I would not have to all these years later deal with it myself and have to spend money I need very badly.
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i understand what are you trying to say. it's like that song, with a little help of my friends or just people who are ready to assist you. yes, i wish i could avoid something but, i had always discovered things on my own and i feel i'll still would. 
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Actually, I had no choice but to deal with them myself. The people I turned to for help just ignored me so I had to find a way to deal with it and one was a stumper and finally after having to spend lots of money I needed elsewhere something came along and good that it did and had to once again spend money to get it taken care of hopefully.
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it's sad how people stick to us when everything is going well, when we buy them drinks or food but, when we need help, they ignore you or twist your words. i am sorry.
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Sorry I don't know what problem you are facing today. I have no idea on what to say about it.
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It is not just something today. It happened many many years ago and now I am seeing how people could have helped me but did not so I am dealing with things myself and it has been very expensive for me.